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Petua kebahagiaan umah tangga…..Kawen ni sonok…caye la

Friday, May 1, 2009




Setiap org yg bekawen lazimnya dia nk perkahwinan dia tu bahagia, pelik sket r klu ade org yg kawen tp xnk bahagia.


Kawen ni sbnrnye sonok tp ade gak org yg kawen tp xsonok, xdpt rasa kebahagiaan/ketenangan….berceretek/bercambah org yg kawen pas2 cerai. Nih… nk kongsi cmne nk bg sonok….hehe…(aku xde r tere sgt nk bg motivasi ke hape ke tp kowang bce la tgk, mna tau bleh dpt idea sket.


Bla kite kawen means kite dh msuk satu fasa bru dlm idup kite. Dulu sensowang kite bebas buat ape pun, leh kuar mlm2 kul 1-2 pg bru blk. Bla dh kawen pun still leh lg nk kuaq mlm2 tp ada batas la sket…ye la..dh ade tanggungjawab. Baik yg laki atau yg pompuan, bla dh kawen ni, masing2 kna blaja…yg laki blaja jd suami, buat la perangai tu mcm sorang suami. Yg pompuan lak blaja la jd sorang isteri, jlnkan la tanggungjawab sbg isteri.


Awal2 perkahwinan slalu sume ok, sume sonok, tp lps 5-6 bln…kdg2 mula timbul sket2 yg krg sonok. Nih la name dia badai di alam perkahwinan. Ujian…menguji ketelusan cinta, kesabaran, actually it’s a learning process, how these two loving couples handle their marriage life.


But of course la, cube pikir2 tgk, 2 org yg saling berbeza background, mgkn berbeza attitude, mgkn berbeza intelligence start living together, tinggal sebumbung, sebilik, tidur sekatil. Mna de yg perfect kan...

Kt cni la setiap pasangan kna blaja trima baik buruk pasangan masing2, blaja give and take (tolak ansur r), masing2 kna saling memperbaiki kelemahan diri…jgn asik tuding jari kt org lain je. Bg masa, bg peluang kpd pasangan utk perbaiki diri dia. Ade yg amik masa lama utk phm kelemahan diri dan brubah, ada yg cpat nmpk kelemahan diri. Ada yg RAM 2gig, ada yg 256mb je. Kita yg pilih nk kawen ngan si dia so we’ve got to learn, to accept as he/she is, baik dan buruk dia. Masing2 ade la kelebihan kekurangan…manusia bkn mcm computer….installkan je trus leh pkai.


Hah…ni petua pertama klu nk bahagia bla kawen. Aspek plg penting skali; carik la pasangan yg beragama….beragama ni bkn maknanya kna nikah dgn ust2 atau ustazah je…nikah ngan businessman, penternak moden, penoreh getah, pekerja kilang….nikah la ngan sape pun xkira dia kerja apa (janji halal) tp dia tu mesti ikut ajaran agama. Dia blaja ugama, tau tauhid (cmne esakan Allah), solat xtinggal…ini plg penting nih.


Klu kita pilih dia semata2 sbb dia cun, hensem, pergh…ni xjamin lg leh bahagia. Bape byk artis2 yg cun dh cerai, bape byk aweks2 yg cun kt luar tu tp cerai. Setakat rupa cun/hensem xmenjamin kebahagiaan. Awai2 sonok r….pas2 dh jd xsonok.


Jgn silap phm ek…xsalah cri bini yg cun, suami yg ensem tp yg aku nk highlight kt cni, klu skdr awek tu cun, balak tu ensem tp agama xdak/xnk ikut ajaran agama…reject je la. Cun/ensem tu criteria kedua. Priority utama; dia kna ikut ajaran agama. Even klu sensowang tu dh terlanjur skalipun, tp dia kembali ke jln yg bnr, he or she is better than org yg xterlanjur tp xikut ajaran agama.


Cm2 gak klu kita pilih sbb si dia tu anak lord, anak org kaya…ni pun xjamin kebahagiaan. Kita mgkn dpt kesenangan tp hati lom tentu merdeka. Klu kita pilih sbb dia ni dr keturunan yg baik pun…ini pun lom tentu leh bahagia…sbb bape byk anak2 ust skang, yg si bapa ust..si anak kutu rayau, xketahuan hala. Yg baik tu mgkn bapa mak dia, si anak lom tentu lg.


Ape2 pun, priority utama dia, kna ikut ckp Allah. Pas2 la kita follow dgn kriteria2 lain yg kita nak. Caye la ckp aku..klu nk pilih pasangan, amik yg ada agama. Nabi suh kita pilih pasangan yg beragama. Ni criteria plg ideal…sbb agama la nnt yg nk jd guidance bla kowang dlm kebuntuan dilanda badai.

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